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since my last wife died I have been having problems dealing everyday problems, holding jobs my general state of self has been really low. has really come to affect any relationships I have been in since her death at time I am in a really serious on se problems causeing serious problems...I don't do se things on ppose now matter how hard i try things always seem to go bad no matter intentions....Any suggestions would be VERY apreciated.....

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When symptoms of bereavement are severe and prolonged, they enter the sphere of depression. I would read the section on depressive disorder. It describes therapies and medications that are extremely effective. Just because the problem began with bereavement does not mean that it will fade on its own. Disabling symptoms need to be diagnosed and treated by a professional in your area. In my opinion, we the living have an obligation to our departed loved ones to try and contribute as much as we can during our lives. You need to seek help Good luck.