Posttraumatic Stress Disorder

[free spirit]

THis is my story, my husband (been together8 years) has asked for us to be separated (for no real reason, we have never ever had any mariage problems no arguements for about 4 months prior) we have drifted apart, but we are 7 months pregnant with our first child very planned, we required gentic councelling for a gentical concern, as he had other siblings that died one 1 week after birth and the other about 2 motnhs after birth, he would have been approx 5 and 7 years old. To complicate things more he has been talking to another female, at the very same time he decided to leave (to his credit he moved away from her). He tells me doesn't love me anymore, comments on how big my stomach is, and is reluctant to touch even, no affection at all (reading the inforamtion on PTSD i was thinking he shows all the signs of the avoidance section), alot of his actions are totally out of character. just wondering what your thoughts are on this. Do u think he is suffering from a form of PTSD or has he jsut turned into a jerk.

[jlg_shes]

He is seeing another woman. Straight up. This is a very sad situation. At first I thought maybe he is scared there will be problems with the baby and be his fault, but if he says he doesnt love you, and is talking to another woman, well....he is in lust right now, and you need to be planning on you and your babys future. A jerk is not strong enough word...